If you don’t know what you’re looking for in your Mr. Perfect then how do you expect to find him?
Gay phone chat sites are a great way to meet thousands of gay men who are looking for fun and friendship. If you’re looking for a little more from your chat dating experience, like finding a lasting relationship, there are plenty of gay men online looking for the same thing too.
Here are some tips for finding your perfect partner online through gay phone chat.
Make a plan
Know what you want from your perfect partner. Think about the attributes that are most important to you in a partner and write them all down. Then go through the list and number each point, with one being the most important trait. Once you’re clear about what you’re looking for in a man it gives you a basis to start your search.
Start a shortlist before you call
Search through profiles on the site to see how many men you can find that match your list. If you’re a picky type with high demands you might find that your short list contains fewer names that you would like it to. If your perfect man isn’t too high spec you could end up with a list a hundred names long. To start with, just choose a few sexy gay men that you would like to chat to.
Make a call
Perfect is never going to know that you’re interested in him unless you let him know. Gay phone chat sites were invented to help gay guys meet new men. Don’t be shy about making that first call or he could be snapped up by someone else right out from under your nose.
Don't waste time chatting
Be receptive but don’t lower your standards. If you get chatting to someone and realise quickly that they’re not the man for you, move on. Gay phone chat services allow you access to thousands of men. If one doesn’t fit the bill, there’s sure to be five others that do. If you’re serious about your quest to find Mr. Right it’s not worth wasting time on Mr. Right Now.
It’s only fair that you’re honest with your chat partners about what you looking for. Be open from the outset that you’re interested in meeting a long term partner but at the same time, if you get on with someone well, don’t dismiss them immediately if they don’t tick all the boxes. After all, they might have a hot friend that you can date.