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Gay mobile chat - first impressions count

SO you’re a guy and you’re looking for a date with another guy. Maybe the gay dating scene in your town is not great, maybe you’re a little but shy or maybe you just don’t have the time to run around chasing shirt.

Before you pickup your mobile - what are your options?

Online dating, dating websites, lonely hearts columns, speed dating, and singles nights are all ways to meet guys, which is great. Whichever way you choose to set out to meet gay guys though is going to see you chatting on the phone at some point. Here some tips to make those impressionable first few mobile phone calls to your new guy are memorable and go in your favour.

Strike a balance during your call

Try to be upbeat when you’re talking to a new guy on the phone. No one wants to hear about your problems the first time you chat to them, so stick to talking about things that make you happy and that cast you in a positive light. On the other end of the scale though being so deliriously happy all the time that it seems a little bit unreal can definitely be off putting. The key is to strike a balance that lies around cheerily friendly.

Just talk, as practise makes perfect

Now, I’m not suggesting you write a script and talk to yourself in the mirror before every phone call you make but having some idea about what you are going to say to your new guy can that a little bit of the pressure off. If you need a little prompt card to spurn you on a bit when the conversation runs a bit dry, go for it. Remember that when you’re on the other end of the phone, your chat date can’t see you so it doesn’t matter how nervous you are as long it doesn’t come across in what you say.

>Know yourself

The guy you are chatting to on your mobile, has either called you or given you his number because he wants to know about you, not because he wants you to agree with everything he says. Know yourself and know what you think, it’s okay to have your own opinions, and interests, and hobbies. Be careful of being too opinionated though. There’s quite a wide line between knowing your own mind and being self righteous but cross that line and you’re in risky territory. Banter and a bit of teasing can be fine for first calls but flat out arguing is a real turn off.

>Timing is key, even if your minutes are free

Think about the timing of your calls to your new hot guy. Calling at 2am on a weekend night when you’re drunk and on your way home from a club will probably not come across too well. Likewise with calling late at night to say that you are home alone and bored, that sort of makes you look like your social life is a bit dead. Call in the afternoon or early evening, then if you really get on well, you can arrange to meet your gay date later that night.

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