The beauty of chatting buy text id that you can be a little bit cheeky and
outrageous knowing that if you never have to meet the guy involved if you don’t
want to. Also, you can have a little think about everything that you write
before you send it so you don’t blurt out things that you really should keep to
yourself. If you want your text chatting experience to lead to a date though, it
pays to have a little bit of caution and to keep a few things in mind. Here are
a few simple tips to make your chat dating a success, to keep him chatting and
to make sure you come across in your best light.
Keep it short – Don’t cram too much information into one message. The less each
message says, the more likely he is to reply in order to find out more about
you. Keep each message a couple of lines long and stick to one subject.
One at a time – Don’t be tempted to bombard your text mate with tons of text
without giving him a chance to reply. The last thing you want is to come across
like some nutter who has nothing else to do but send constant text messages.
Make him wait – Likewise, don’t feel like you always have to reply instantly
when you receive a text chat message from someone. Wait a couple of minutes at
least and a little longer if you can. Not too long though, you don’t want him to
move onto someone else before you have even got started.
Straight to the point – Remember that when chatting by text, humour does not
always come across the way you intend it to. Be careful of using in-jokes that
you use with your friends, you might just come across as a bit crazy.
Create some intrigue – Try not to gibe too much away through your text chat. If
your chatting leads to an actual date, you will need something to talk about.
Leave him feeling like there is more to find out about you when you do meet.
Be creative – When chatting by text you have time to think between each text so
make the most of it. First impression counts so making him think that you
extremely intelligent and witty now could work in your favour later.
Be flirty – There is no harm at all in a little flirting by text, remember that
if things don’t work out the way you expected them to, you don’t have to go
through with meeting your text guy face to face. Let your personality do the
As a word of warning, text dating portals are designed to keep you and your
information safe. Make sure you keep your personal details under wraps and don’t
give away anything that you don’t feel comfortable with. Don’t be put off
though, text chat dating can be tons of fun!
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